Oftentimes,I've heard the expression that the eye is the window to our souls.I beg to differ a bit cause if you ever understand the life of a child who is blind and who have accepted his or her blindness you'll understand that this may not be so.To me the eye is what makes a lot of people do a lot of stupidness and lose their identity.
So often we are fooled into believing that there are perfect men and women,we tend to believe that the man who has a hot body with abs is de man or the man who dresses with the most expensive clothes is the ideal man.Many men go for the big breast,big butt and the woman with the perfect figure.We spend our whole lives chasing after empty dreams and many live in a fantasy world,as they fantasize about that singer or movie star.We spend so much money promoting people who don't even know we exist while we shud our shoulders and pull down and belittle the yute who tries to make it in life.Many young girls are so fooled into believing that they must have that dead gorgeous slim sexy body to be accepted into the world.Many of us would give anything in the world to be seen in the presence of prominent persons in society and we would be quick to get a photo of some star or maybe the queen or the president but they would spit and walk all over the ordinary man or woman.It is such a shame that many have lost their true identity and some have forgotten who they are and where they come from.We allow our eyes to change us into fake puppets being controlled by a fake controlling freak world.Some of us wear things and follow fads and we don't even know the story behind wearing our pants under our backside and so many follow the fashion things seen on tv.I see many persons,spending so much money changing their skin colour,their looks and in so doing they have become empty shells and fake pictures in a magazine.Why do we allow the eyes to be fooled by what we see around us? I have spoken to many young girls and it breaks my heart when I see so much beauty and talent in our youths but no one seems to notice or give them a chance.We are a generation of people who have lost our hair,we would rather adorn ourselves with HHIB (Horse Hair I Buy) than to be seen with short nice natural hair.We would rather be seen with so much make-up that makes many of us look like Jazebel than be simple and natural.We would rather be seen flaunting the latest designs which we can't afford than to be seen as a simple and natural person.We seem to always in a competition with our friends and that's where the root of envy and jealousy begin,cause everything we see we want and our fake wanna be star friends make us feel so small,ugly and out of place so if we eh in style or have the latest we are not allowed to lime with the Fab 5.Pure nonsense!!! Think about it,we got a lot of fake people out there who have lost their true identity and don't even know who they are.If only you know how sad and empty they are inside and the extend they will go to get what they want.My mentality and the way I see things and people go way beyond what the eyes see.I truly believe that true beauty goes deeper than skin deep and to understand true beauty you have to go deeper into one's soul.A real man or woman is not about looks only but personality, beauty inside out and love for others.When you've meet a blind person who appreciate life and the inner soul,you'll understand that the things the eyes see is not what matters the most.On this note I urge you to look at the people you call friends and if they can't accept you for who you are,then they not true friends.If they can't lime with you,when you are simple and being yourself,then they not real friends.Appreciate yourself,love who you are and don't lose your true identity just to have friends and be seen with the fake wanna be freaks.Be who you are and love yourself so much that you won't allow someone to change you nor do things to be accepted.On a final note the people we hold so highly above us are human beings just like us who have become successful with all the money we spend on the fads and fashion.There is none wrong with trying to look good and having a great figure,with great sense of style but when these things consume us and make us lose our true identity then it becomes a major problem.Be yourself,believe and have faith in yourself.
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